Have you ever come across with someone who has taught you a life lesson just in one meet or even in a conversation? Let me share my story and make this topic a bit more interesting. There was a phase when I was barely interested in talking to people around me. Animals, music and nature became my friends (They are still my best companions though). No, I’m not blaming anyone for this because it was me who wasn’t completely feeling herself. During that time, I started seeing things differently. I realized that the society we live in, is surrounded by millions of strangers. A world full of Amigos!
THE GREATEST TEACHERS ARE OFTEN THE LEAST OBVIOUS ONES
Now the interesting part is each unknown person can teach you more than you will ever think of. This happened with me because I talked to many people on an anonymous platform, who were alien to me. I know I know you probably just rolled your eyes at this because we’ve always been taught that it is not safe to talk to an outsider. But here’s a small reminder: we all start as strangers. And in the world where concept of blind dates and making pen friends have become ordinary, can I not even share or listen to a newbie? Okay I won’t mind if you consider me a bit lunatic in this case 😀 Also, I’ve always believed that it is completely normal to escape from reality when you feel lost. In fact, it somewhere helps you in getting back to the right track.
So I listened to their life stories, what’s their point of view on different aspects, how they cope up with day to day issues and what not. And all of them astonished me in one or the other way. Some of them were highly intellectual. Their mind and mouth were completely in sync. They taught me number of lessons. For instance, how to enjoy your freedom, never under estimate the impact of a small effort, what’s important is to live for yourself and the list goes on.
The other ones were going through a hell lot of issues. But they were very comfortable in sharing their worries because somewhere they knew that I’m not going to judge them. And even if I do, it will hardly bother them. So here what I learned is vibes don’t lie. Hence, trust them. Also, If you’re sharing your story/problem and asking someone about their opinion on it, you might get a fruitful advice. As I truly feel that the greatest teachers often are the unexpected ones.
THE LESSON
Now that you know my story, you will understand better what I’m exactly trying to convey. We are all busy creatures. We have baggage, we have problems, we have to-do list that never seems to end. But if we help someone even by being a good and patient listener, we can make an optimistic difference in his life.
A stranger can help you go through a small, but difficult moment. And this could be a good deed without expecting anything in return, right?
There will always be someone who is busier, someone who is going through one or the other problem, someone who has more difficult path to blaze. Which is why I am recommending that WE take at least 10 minutes of our busy schedule, to some empathy and make other person’s morning/afternoon/evening a little bit better than it started. Trust me, you will feel happier than the person who was in trouble.
You must be wondering that how is it possible to be a wingman for an unfamiliar soul. How will we even get to know about who wants our help. So here’s your answer, you don’t have to make efforts in that. Just stop and look around, there are number of anonymous individuals that might need your help. A little kindness can go a long way.
Always keep in mind, a simple gesture can make a huge difference in someone’s life. So try to be a ray of sunshine in a stranger’s entity and feel the happiness. Make our society a happy and healthier one.
I hope this write up sparks something in you and convince you in helping someone.. Also, do let me know in the comment section when was the last time you helped a stranger or has an amigo ever lend his helping hand towards you?
