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WISH I COULD GO BACK IN TIME!

So I just binge watched a web show on YouTube (Yes, this platform also recommends you some good miniseries at times😄) called “A summer story”. It’s a wonderful slice of life drama which is endearing and covers a lot of aspects of the life of people in their twenties. Meanwhile, nostalgia hit me really hard when a group of friends staying together in a flat and doing all the night fun which we used to do during our hostel days no matter how terrible our day has been. Ahh! Why time travel is not possible? Wish I could back in time.

Have you ever had this feeling when a particular moment or incident made you think that God! Wish I could go back to those days… A time when you were truly yourself, a time when you were genuinely happy from inside out, when you were enjoying a good company keeping aside all your worries and stress, when everything was falling at right place. Okay you might find this topic a bit irrational but I’m sure you could relate to it to some extent coz we all go through such musing very often.

Well, I undergo such thoughts quite frequently, especially when things doesn’t go great enough or I’m really missing my good old days. And this pandemic has surely forced me to think in that way. Travelling, attending concerts/gigs, good food in a fine dine restaurant or even golgappas near a street corner, hanging out with friends and going for some crazy drives are few of the major missing in 2020. Most unpredictable time in human history! Isn’t it?

Many a times, we wish to go back to our childhood days as well. Because as we grew up, we realized that those heaviest bags were the lightest burden we carried. Oh, Instagram make me read such kind of quotes a lot😉

COUSIN SQUAD
Good old days with my childhood playmates (cousins) who grow up to be Friends Forever

So these are some blissful moments which we want to relieve. Now let’s discuss about those unclosed chapters that lay scattered.

NOT EVERY BLOOPER IS MEANT TO MAKE YOU LAUGH

We also wish to reverse the time to make things right, as there are certain blunders due to which we are unable to move on. Some serious life bloopers really force us to rethink. We feel like those chapters are calling us back to them. The ignored aspects of our lives are demanding attention. But I don’t get one thing, why do we lay more stress on correcting our past mistakes rather than accepting them and try to be a better person? Why spoil your present because of something which is related to your past? Life requires you to jump. Don’t be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have or could have had. No one waits forever.

LIFE GOES ON

”My present is full of amazing people, but somehow, the people in my past hold the same importance till date. All in all, I miss them a hell lot”. This happens with everyone. All of us create certain bond with someone that once meant everything to us. Although, they never ended, they faded away with a time. And somewhere we still hope to get those days back. Everyone knows that there’s no such time machine which could allow us to undo our regrets or relive our favorite moments. And here the only thing that strikes us is “life moves on, so we carry on with life.”

I so wish it could be that easy. But sooner or later, you will come to terms with reality. So try and be as passive as possible. You can also learn from others which is a lot faster than trying to figure everything out for yourself.

Google gave me an apt quote for my state of mind:

Renew, release, let go. Yesterday’s gone. There’s nothing you can do to bring it back. You can only DO something is Renew yourself and Release that attachment. Today is a new day!🌞

I tried my best to explain the analogy between joyful and gloomy past. I’m curious what you think! Share your favorite moments in the comment section which you wish to relive or any dreadful thought which daunts you till date 🙂

16 replies on “WISH I COULD GO BACK IN TIME!”

Wow… Now this is what made me wish I could go back and relive those moments. I miss sharing our worries and frustrations with one another and having those conversations where we might be crying at the beginning, but we’re always laughing by the end. All the moments, that happiness, the good company which kept all our worries away….reading this, came all of them in front of my eyes in a heartbeat!!
May the joy and the best memories never fade away.
Keep writing!

Didi!!!! I’m feeling so overwhelmed right now. Thank you sooo much for always appreciating my work and I’m really glad that you could relate to this blogpost❤

Watching myself in the blog, I knew this would have been great. Kidding, what an amazing description of how reminiscence makes us zoned out and we travel through a set of emotions and how bad we wish we could relive them once again.

Haha! You never fail to sum up my blog in a best possible way.
Thank you for being constant in my life❤

Omg! Prachi this is so gooddddd man.
Keep writing such good things.
I really miss sharing my worries with you. Asking stupid questions from you! Irritating you by asking the same thing again and again! Missing you a lot right now.

Awww! I miss you even more my dearest❤ Will see you soon 🙂
And thanks a lot for the appreciation!!

No words for this blog. Through this I cherished my old sweet memories. Thankful to u making me remember those old tinglings that we almost forget in our day to day life.

Really an amazing piece of work

I was literally taken back to my old school days, those happy memories
I even felt bad as due to CA I could not attend any college so missed all the hostel fun so it was just ups and downs while reading

It was rightly said by you to let go of the past and I am a genuine believer of this thing. There are few of my stupid ideas which I would like to share on this topic –

I believe people who are very creative and have strong imagination are the one’s who suffer the most from past and can’t live and enjoy the present as they are worried more about the future. There’s a reason why I believe so and that is because such people have a strong memory and a great imaginative prowess. They can’t forget the past which haunts them and those imaginative prowess makes things worse as they now can imagine hundreds of negative outcomes relating to that memory. Ironically, they can’t even do anything to control that.

Solution to all these which I believe is to write everything down on a piece of paper and transfer all your emotions attached to that memory on the paper and then throw or burn that away. It really works as memories in itself are not good or bad, its the emotions attached with them that differentiates them.

But genuinely you have a very great style of writting….keep it up

Daymn! I’m speechless right now. This comment cum short write up was really worth reading 😀
Thank you so much for taking out time from your busy schedule and sharing your emotions here!! 🙂
Will be looking forward to your feedback on my coming blogs too!

Write more, thats all I have to say. Literally, it seems as though you
relied on the video to make your point. You definitely know
what youre talking about, why waste your intelligence
on just posting videos to your site when you could be giving us
something informative to read?

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